WHEN WE LEAVE (DIE FREMDE) (Feo Aladag, 2010)
Symphony Space Leonard Nimoy Thalia
2537 Broadway at 95th St.
Sunday, March 20, 8:30; Sunday, March 27, 4:30; Sunday, April 3, 4:30
212-864-5400
www.whenweleave.com
www.symphonyspace.org
Viennese actress Feo Aladag makes a powerful directorial debut with her heartbreaking melodrama, When We Leave. Inspired by her work with Amnesty International’s Stop Violence Against Women campaign, Aladag tells the story of a young mother, Umay (Head-On’s Sibel Kekilli), who leaves her abusive husband, Kemal (Ufuk Bayraktar), in Istanbul and returns with her son, Cem (Nizam Schiller), to her family in Germany. But her father, Kader (Settar Tanriogen), her mother, Halime (Derya Alabora), and especially her older brother, Mehmet (Tamer Yigit), insist she return to Kemal despite his mistreatment of her, since she has now brought shame to her family among the tight-knit Turkish community in Berlin. But as Umay refuses their demands and tries to put her life back together, Kader and Mehmet steadfastly turn away from her pleas to be accepted by them and instead conspire to return her and Cem to Kemal, no matter the cost. Winner of the Best Narrative Feature and Best Actress Award (for Kekilli) at the 2010 Tribeca Film Festival and Germany’s official entry for the 2011 Academy Awards for Best Foreign Language Film, When We Leave is a heart-tugging tale of misguided tradition, familial obligation, and the basic need to be loved. The film falters a bit as Umay continues going back to her parents time and time again, risking her life and that of her son, but it’s still a poignant, moving tale reminiscent of Abdullah Oguz’s 2007 film Mutluluk (Bliss), which brilliantly dealt with the theme of honor killings in Turkey. One of the most frightening aspects of the film is that the crimes of honor it deals with are all too real in numerous societies around the world, although Aladag wisely avoids getting overly preachy and pedantic. When We Leave is screening at Symphony Space as part of the weekly Thalia Film Sundays program on March 20, March 27, and April 3.